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First and foremost gentlemen always be yourself. If you cannot capture her interest by being yourself, she is just not the particular woman for you. Do not hesitate, move on, it is definitely a numbers game and if you have anything going on for yourself, those numbers are in your favor. Many men don’t feel that they are good enough to catch a beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on a show or false image. Truth be known, a confident man is the sexiest flavor around. Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women? That is because they display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks. Men are more visual, women respond to "how he makes me feel" the emotional component, remember that as we move on.
Always do the little things that women translate into "things that real men do." Be mindful Fellas that ladies won't necessarily tell you what these things are, because if you are real man you should already know and if you say "I am a real man and I don't do these things and my lady is completely into me" than you are under an illusion, this is temporary, another real man that fits her discription and does these things just has not presented himself yet to move her, but best believe she is moveable, so let's try to prevent this. Offer to take her car in for maintenance or other things related to her vehicle if she has one. This subliminally informs her that you care that she's safe while traveling and that you're handling it. Know her favorite foods, snacks, drinks, favorite flavors, etc. and have those things available for her from time to time, it's comforting. It's not always the “grand gestures,” when it is the little things add up. Stay on top of your game !
Appreciate her. You shouldn’t take her for granted. Let her know that you value her, but you value you more so she is replaceable. Stay on top of your game ! Do not waste too much time if what you put out is not reciprocated. Time, energy, attention, emotions and money are investments, always be ready to cut your losses in 60 seconds flat... There is a lot of life to live and a big world to explore, do not stay stuck KEEP IT MOVING...
It should be obvious that looking at other women when you are with her is a NO NO. Women think that you are comparing her to the woman you’re looking at. They don’t understand the whole concept of “I am just looking because men are programmed that way, it means nothing.” This is because she biological programmed for monogamy( in most cases). (In most cases) Women are looking for a lifetime partner for a man with whom they can eventually settle down and raise children with. They can’t help it's how evolution modified them to adapt. So fight the urge and check your eyes from reckless eyeballing.
Most importnatly, you should always try to make her laugh. While good looks is at the top of the list for men in things they need in a woman, women extremely value a man’s sense of humor. So keep her laughing, it doesn't mean that you're a clown, it means that you are making her smile!
Seek common interests. It’s great if you got together because of a hobby or an interest, like MAMBO SALSA DANCING ON 2 , but it still helps when you take an interest in other passions of hers. She is your instrument, know her completely, so when you play there is always beautiful, interesting, breathtaking music. If this means developing an appreciation for things out of your norm, so be it. Master this and she’ll know you are one in a million.
Now, we have gotten you the girl, it may seem like you don’t have to try anymore – Wrong ! Stay on top of yourself ! While women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who keeps himself together. Groom with precision. Shave, smell good and keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men. DO NOT get sloppy just because you have her "FOR NOW". You can lose her just as fast.
She’s going to need to know that she can integrate you into her circle of family and friends. A man must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are over. So, make an effort to get along with her friends and family if possible. A woman relies on her social network to validate her choice in a man. Last but not least for now, stimulate her mentally and give her space to do her own thing. Do not keep tabs on her or be jealous... If she is not yours when you are not with her, she never was...
That's it for volume one of gentlemen's corner... Keep in tuned and I will see you again soon !
~David F. Smith